Zen and the Art of Frying Pan Baseball

Transcendence, to change, to go beyond intended use, to function on a higher plane of reality, a thing experienced but not spoken of. A ten dollar word, and at least a million dollar philosophy. A concept that has meant many different things at many different times.

In one Hindu tradition transcendence is seen as obtaining a state beyond the material, where one is not bound to the cycles of rebirth. Mistakes are not repeated over and over again. It is in this context that I believe that an ordinary frying pan transcended it’s use yesterday in Utah.

Three teenage girls used the frying pan as means of escape from a maternity home. The use of violence was the only way they could see a way out of their situation. They had been sent to the home by parents who wished to hide them from their friends and community. It was the only way they could see their way out of the situation. The people who ran the home’s motives are unknown to me, but I’m sure they saw the home as the only solution for both the girls and the parents.

They are all blind.

There is clearly an elephant they cannot see.

The elephant is adoption. It seems that many truly cannot see it, and some that can refuse to acknowledge it’s presence.

It’s right there in front of you.


9 thoughts on “Zen and the Art of Frying Pan Baseball

  1. I keep coming back to this post and reading it over and over – I just love it. I’ll never be able to look at my frying pan as just a cooking utensil ever again.

  2. And being stuck in a closet with an elephant is terribly uncomfortable.

    I LOVED the analogy. I’m a huge fan of the concept and of the book.

    RUN girls RUN until you find someone willing to help.

  3. I have just fallen in love with all my frying pans and every time I use one, it will be a prayer of escape for every single young woman cornered into coughing up her heart (child).

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