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Well with every adoptee rights bill introduced in the current Missouri legislative session either withdrawn, on hold, or revised into a total piece of shit, it’s time to move on.
But how do we do that?
I’m glad you asked. This is where the new plan comes in.
What we are doing just ain’t working. We are going to ditch the kicking and crying, the victim attitude, the constant whining, and the Queen For A Fucking Day adoption beat me up so bad I can’t go on bullshit. We will also be jettisoning the back biting, the self-congratulatory boasting, and the goddamn circle jerk that the adoptee rights movement has become.
If you want to talk about your feelings, if you feel the need to cry into your dish towel, take a walk right now. You ain’t going to do that here. There are places for that, heck I administrate a couple of them, that’s the place for it. Go heal yourself and please come around when you are feeling stronger. We do have a place at the table for you, when you’re ready.
Now if you can put the pain aside and act like a grown-up for at least a little while, and truly desire your rights, let’s talk.
First let’s be honest, we aren’t even close in the state of Missouri. It’s going to take a lot of work and more than likely a lot of time. A lot of people would tell you that open records are just around the corner, it just ain’t so, right here, right now. All you have to do is look at what happened to all the bills that were considered this session to see that.
That’s not to say that it can’t be done, it can. But getting everybody’s hopes up over something that was obviously going to amount to nothing does no one any good. Expect to get beat up. There are very powerful people who do not want us to have access and the truth be told, those that do support our cause have shown no inclination to go to war recently.
We need to give the people that can help us a reason to champion our cause. While our cause is a noble one, and almost anyone can be convinced of that fairly easily, someone else’s noble cause is rarely a reason to go to war. We need to give them a real reason to help us out.
One of the best reasons I can think of to help someone is that they have helped you out in the past.
The first step in The Brand New Plan is not-so-random acts of kindness. We are going to help out those that could help us out. First go here..
Find your legislators. Many of them are up for re-election this fall. You can go here to see if they have filed..
If they have filed, call their office. You are going to be the best johnny-on-the-spot volunteer they have ever seen. You are going to make phone calls, knock on doors, fetch coffee, eat dirt, what ever, and talk to everyone you know about voting for your candidate. You will impress your candidate with your dedication and nobility. Study up, know all the issues, not just adoptee rights. Let them know that you aren’t one dimensional. That you are a citizen concerned with all aspects of life. They will hopefully see you as the real and noble person that you are.
When you come to them later you will be more than one of the many people who wants something, you will be someone that has helped them. This may help to incline them to help you. You are noble and dedicated after all.
This approach will be most effective in the House races. The House candidates always have less people working for them. State Rep races just don’t have the glamor of the national races, you will have less other people performing not-so-random acts of kindness to compete with.
We need to focus on the already friendly leggies first, of course.
Davis in District 42
Roorda in District 102
In the State senate races, the once and maybe future friendly Connie Johnson has filed for the seat in district 5.
I’ll be throwing myself at my incumbent state rep hoping to curry favor.
This is only the beginning. We need to present ourselves as adults, with some knowledge of how things work in order to be treated as adults.
We are starting all over here folks. This is the first step.
If you’re wondering who the heck Carolyn Pooler is, check these links out..
The short answer, not much.
The longer answer, quite a lot. We’ve learned that reform isn’t always about what’s best for everyone, sometimes it’s about desperation and clinging to things that no longer work.
Nobody is really sure if we heard from Carolyn or not, though I’m pretty sure that we did. Twice. There’s a good lesson. If you are not willing to take credit for your actions and defend them, you probably shouldn’t be working on anybody else’s behalf. You have to believe in what you’ve done enough to put you name on it and claim it. Hiding behind different screen names and posting from public computers, so you can’t be traced isn’t going to inspire a lot of confidence in what you have to say. So from Carolyn we learned to be ready to explain your actions and claim them. If you’ve managed to fuck up royally, admit it.
I suppose there is a an argument riding into town, hoopin’ and hollerin, killin’ all the women and rapin’ all the cattle. Hell, I’ve done it myself. But if you are going to do that, you need to case the place you are ridin’ into first. Carolyn didn’t do that. And because she didn’t do her research, all she managed to get done was fall in a pile of shit. Hell my blog was right there. If she had even read the previous post to The Missouri Compromise, she would have found that I’m staunchly anti-whining. As to the other folks she managed to insult, she didn’t check up on them either. There’s a lesson. Do your research. I don’t imagine she’s researched adoptee issues, or the current state of reform actions, any better than she researched me.
Lastly, and most importantly, we learned the price of alienating those that can help you in your cause. I can tell you it will be Frozen Margarita Night In Hell before I’d piss on her if she were on fire. I’m guessing there are a few others that feel the same, most of them in a better position to help her than I am.
Yes,The Carolyn Pooler Affair, as it will from now be known, because I say so. Has been an excellent lesson to us all. All the lame newbie internet insults, all the pathetic kicking and crying aside, Ms. Pooler has given us something to learn from.
There will be a test afterward.
I’m still waiting here. See this post The Missouri Compromise. So far absolutely no explanation. And I’m not the only one who wants one.
Amy wants to know.
Gershom wants to know.
And Marley really wants to know.
Oh and these folks are curious too Nullius Filius.
Along with a lot of other people.
Exactly who do you claim to represent? Are they all Missouri adoptees? Were they all on board when you refused to support Representative Connie Johnson’s bill?
Oh and is it MO CARE that you represent, like you signed your letters with, or is it more like mocoare? Because through a typo I did find that group, with 5 whole people in it. Which is it?
Or are you speaking for the American Adoption Congress? Or Adoption and Triad Support Network? Or The Benevolent and Protective Order of Elks? I can’t tell. And you don’t seem to have any friends that are forthcoming.
C’mon set me straight here. Educate me. And everybody else.
BTW, I see you’re having a meeting Thursday evening. Would you be more comfortable explaining this to me in person? I promise to listen very slowly.
Again comments section is below.
Missouri is the “Show Me” state. Legend says we got that name because we’re kind of slow. There must be some truth to that because I don’t know what the heck is going on.
Representative Connie Johnson was set to introduce a bill that would grant Missouri adoptees access to their original birth certificates. Then I get an email in which representative Johnson expressed her offense at , “the dialogue that has taken place regarding this bill and my intentions”. I was taken aback.
My first thought was that those who would wish to limit adoptee access had offended Mrs. Johnson. Scrolling down revealed something else entirely, it was a member of the group MO CARE, more specifically a Caroline Pooler who had caused the offense.
I had never heard of MO CARE. I Googled them. As far as the internet is concerned, they have never heard of them either. A little closer examination revealed a close allegiance with the American Adoption Congress. Now we all know that the American Adoption Congress ” comprises individuals, families and organizations committed to adoption reform. We represent those whose lives are touched by adoption or other loss of family continuity”.
This explained who these people were, but not what they had done to make Representative Johnson feel that she needed to pull the bill from the legislative session. Why would a group that seemed so supportive of the rights of adoptees oppose this bill to the point of offense and possibly jeopardizing the support of a friendly legislator to any future bills?
Nobody knew. As far as I can tell Ms. Pooler’s motives have not been revealed to anyone outside her group.
A larger question in my mind is, who gave her the right to speak for all Missouri adoptees? I certainly did not. I am not a member of MO CARE, if it does indeed exist. I am not a member of The American Adoption Congress. They do not speak for me or many others. Honestly I’m a bit offended that anyone would think that they did.
I appreciate Representative Johnson’s effort on my behalf. Even if the bill was not perfect I did support it as it was written. It would have given me access to my original birth certificate.
Caroline Pooler, never again think that you can speak for me. If I can give you a piece of advice, it does our cause certain harm to offend friendly legislators. I don’t know what your problem was. You seemed to think it was your place to speak for me, but didn’t think I needed to be informed of your reasons. I am also offended.
So please Ms. Pooler outline your reasoning for me. Right now. Right here. The comment section is below.
By the way, MO Care will Google now.